I understand that you should appear disinterested. Do you recommend going to the point where you're basically acting like an asexual guy?

Suppose I lift a lot (I got a decent amount of muscle, but I can get more), dress nice and improve my social skills and humour. Is it better to just focus on being respected and having great friendships with other men, and then letting women come to me should they be interested?

I say this as someone who has suffered from oneitis, and is still struggling with NAWALT vs. AWALT.

So in class, parties etc., it's better to just walk in there as a confident good looking guy who isn't really interested in starting a conversation with women, and let women approach me should they want to?