I've been friends with the same group of guys since high school. I'm definitely the most confident and experienced out of all of them but we all seem to get along. One guy in my group and I do not get along. I think he's jealous of me so that's where his hate comes from. I don't let it bother me but he refuses to go to any gatherings that I go to.

As a result, I'm always the one not getting invited to shit. This has opened my eyes and I've now realized they're all equally as shit because not one of them stuck up for me and insisted I come.

I know the general response will be "find new friends" but that's very hard for me at the moment as I work a job that requires me to be away 3 weeks of the month, so i'm just lonely as fuck because I quite literally have one friend I regularly hang out with. How do I go about finding a group of friends that fit my lifestyle without forcing it? I wanna go out and shit on weekends but I hate going to bars (and especially clubs) by myself.