So I had been hooking up with this girl pretty consistently until recently. A little background into the situation, she's a girl in a friend group from school who only last semester I became involved with Unfortunately for her, that’s when I started reading TRP and changing my philosophy on basically everything. So I did what anyone here would do, only snap chatted her to hook up, most of the times left her on read, it was like I had this girl on a hook (which trust me, definitely wouldn't have happened if I didn't swallow the pill). But recently she hasn't put out and stopped sending snapchats. For clarity, she initiates 99% of these convos, including the last one. I don't feel like going out of my way and snapping her back because frankly I see that being a blue pill move now that the conversation has shifted. I was wondering if there was any TRP reasoning behind this or if this could be one giant shit test or worse, I lost frame.

I guess another kind of related question is how do you stop from caring about past sexual history? Not going to lie, I had a pretty rough start to the semester with catching the flu and then a lot of stress from work/classes and it really stopped me in my tracks from being social and there was one night she basically made out with all my roommates (some game they played drinking one night) and went into some pretty deep detail on past encounters that wasn't much fun to hear.