Working on myself. Got a big promotion. Got sober except social drinking. Gym five days a week. NMMNG, MMSLP, several times and a stack of other books. Spending time with male friends.
Until I fixed up my shit I was fucking shit up with my wife. Married 18 years.
Years of DEER, minimal sex because I was a drunk stoner. Felt anxious about sex and being a man in the bedroom. Total loser.
Long story short my lack of fucking her has made her feel like shit about herself. She tried and tried and I just kept being a drunk stoned anxious idiot. She's angry at me and said she doesn't know if she can see me sexually again.
I've changed a lot. Worked on my shit, I'm a different person. She's sees this but the problem persists.
Is there any coming back from this shit?
