Title seems like a stupid question with a straightforward answer, but hear me out.

I've noticed that some women would settle for men that they aren't super attracted to because he was good prospects to be husband material. I've noticed that these women don't have sex often with these men, and say that they don't find them particularly appealing to look at.

In contrast, I've heard that women have sex three times a day with chads during hookups, or during the novel stages of a relationship with their boyfriend. Even watching some YouTube couple channels, they generally have it at least once a week.

For those partners that you don't find "super hot" or those times when your partner has gone downhill when it comes to looks, have you ever noticed your self having sex less often because of that?