Hi everyone. I here in Canada from Africa. In my country, i didn't really have problems getting girls because there is always a technique to get the girls. But ever since I came to Canada, it's been hard. I'm normally direct and subtle at the same time in my country but here it's different. They act like they don't know what I mean.

For instance, I met a girl on tinder. She messaged me first and I told her to come over. She said she doesn't know me well(I know shit test). But we agreed to go play some fun games outside. We kissed. I invited her over, she said she still doesn't know me well. Okay second date we went to one restaurant which I don't do normally but because she was my first girl here, I did.

During this date, I could see signs that she wanted to hookup or something. Like she was adjusting her buttons, showing her boobs more and the rest. I invited her to my place again and she said she still doesn't know me well. Now I'm confused. We still kissed passionately. Then later she sent a text that she doesn't want to rush things. That she wants to enjoy the sex but it's annoying because I know she is the bad type that does a lot of naughty stuffs but want to take it slow with me. I'm not here to have a relationship immediately so I'm ghosting her because already she is getting into my head. No more going out. If she wants to see me, she should come over.

So I'm asking, how do you guys get girls here. And can you advise what I should have done with this girl.