Hi dudes, I have been dating this girl for like 5 years. I don't love her. I am attracted to her so I just kept fucking her. However she wants me to be her husband, partner, whatever, but I told her my philosophy was "I love no one and no one should love anyone".

I don't buy all that romance "love" crap. That thing people talk about is just a glorified illusion. I think everything is give-and-take, a trade, a business.

Basically, she's my play thang, like one of the play thangs that I enjoy - not a oneitis. I like her as a slut, like her physical appearance wise, but personality wise? No. She's dumb as fuck. She's hot and all and I like fucking women but I'll never marry or love her or anybody. I just don't do that.

So she used to be like an 8 or 9 but, recently, she started putting on weight (hah! Not unexpected huh? Have read all those stories of women getting fat as soon as they think they have a settled relationship)

I've tried carrot and stick stuff to get her to work out but the bitch is like just so satisfied she got me that she no longer needs to look good.

She used to lust for parties and hang out with guys, make up, dressing up, but now she no longer does those and now she is a faithful little girl. Wtf happened?

I've read up on dread games but at the moment, I'm really busy struggling to get my new business running so I can't be fooling around with chicks either, to make her jealous and stuff.

Instead of just dumping the chick right away, I want to use this situation as an opportunity to learn more about game.

What can I do to get her to look attractive again?

I will try one last time. If she fails to live up to my expectations this time, I'm going to dump her.

Edit: For some context, I am pretty good looking and notorious for being a player and a cheater, which I don't mind. I have always worked out. I regularly lift, often swim, sing and dance, I sometimes run on the treadmill, seldom jog outside. When I started dating her, though I was goodlooking, I was lean but I didn't have muscle (imagine Leonardo in Titanic). Now that I've been working out, I now have muscles and now I am more of Brad Pitt in Benjamin Button.