This is the new line I will draw in the sand and I recommend others consider it -

Unless a woman goes out of her way to do something for me, I will not acknowledge or care about women at all. If I see they need help I'll internalize it because I do have love and compassion and wish to be aware.

This is important and men need this concience to be able to feel love and equinimity.

But unless a woman goes out of her way to earn it she can suffer. I have people I am indebted to that I care for.

To me this is equal treatment because guess what - for anyone 7< on the looks scale which is a large majority of the male population, the only reason you get any attention and emotional support is to keep you busting your ass for her, be it at work or some other means.

If you're not doing something for women and you're ugly you are INVISIBLE, most of us know this truth - but the way I am coping isn't hatred it's acceptance and appreciation for the life o have , the drive to continue bettering myself and exploring new possibilities -

The best revenge one can have is not success when it comes to women I'm convinced of this right now and maybe one day it will change due to my resentment changing.

The best revenge and treatment of women you know is to not allow them redemption. To withhold all knowledge and love and life experience, to withhold the best parts of yourself and give them nothing but the superficial.

It seems silly and obvious, but this is helping me not feel taken advantage of. Have you ever noticed when you start doing well some woman starts butting her head in because she's decided you have value , and it fucks your shit up and stunts your growth and freedom?

These women don't even care. Your struggle to get on to her radar means nothing to her. You're a bad week away from a downgrade in her eyes.

WHY do we allow women to have this power? The power to make decisions about how they will treat us, think of us.

Women need to be left to the mirror inside themselves that that vainly fawn over. They can believe anything they want but we as men cannot allow women's judgments of us to shape us.

Women have every motivation to break down your self esteem and make you pliable for resource extraction be it knowledge, money, or the most sacred parts of yourself you don't want to share with the world.

Women have no deeper desire than to violate that sacred part of you and to leave their own mark on it. They are narcisstic and if you let them in they will direspect what is most valuable in you which is WHO you are.

That is why we as men feel like we are only valued based on what we can do. Conditioning. The truth of us - our innate self, is something women hijack because they wish to see themselves there and not us.

Women are narcisstic which is why they are always eager to play god to babies. Whether they are good mothers or not is determined by their upbringing - are they evolved beyond primitive female urges in to actual mature women (who are nurturing, giving, submissive and sacrificial) or are they like the gluttonous pig women using men to satiate their vain desired like we see today? Attention, wisdom, money - all your hard work and sacrifice, she wants it with no understanding of its value or what it means to you. It all means nothing to women because they are narcisstic by nature when left to grow in the vulgar and exploitative environments they are, especially those from single mother house holds and with high body counts.

Women what to take the best of you and make it seem like nothing. That is my honest opinion and by devaluing your innate existence they elevate themselves. This makes them feel like some sort of "mother" or something sick, then they take this mentality in to the world and look down on men and degrade them constantly. They degrade you for letting them play you and exploit you. They complain and waste time on stupid shit.

Men are geared to solve problems. When we are not being exploited for our actual selves then we have self worth and dignity and thrive in the world giving back.

Understand this much - women seek to violate what is sacred in us and leave their mark on it. If you allow a woman to do that you will elevate her ego and how she and other women can act in the world. You will become a slave to those emotions and your vulnerability will be linked to her and used for psycho sexual gratification. The "Tee hee" girl power goes on.

If you understand yourself and where the line is you protect not only yourselves but your future sons by putting the line there. Women can do as they please but they cannot cross that boundary and if they dare violate it your cold rage and abandonment of them should be your first priority.

Reading this they will laugh, because they can't understand or respect what I'm saying. Let that be proof that it's important and that it can't be ignored.

They will say "why should I care I don't need you anyway you're a loser incel".

That should tell you everything you need to know that WHO you are doesn't matter to them. It's what you are doing or not doing.

We know the world doesn't care if we exist or not but we allow it to shape our self image and our relationship with women. It shouldn't matter. Women don't care about you and you shouldn't care about them.

The key word is equinimity which is a mindset developed in Buddhism. Not attaching to or avoiding anything specifically - women are simply things. Object in the environment. We have to stop giving power away to people who don't care if we live or die.