Hi,

I am M27, my current ex is F19. We were in and out of relationship for past 11 months. Spent ~9 months together ~2 seperated.

I broke up with her 2 days ago because when we were seperated (~2 months ago) she accepted a job offer that i told her not to accept AND she did not inform me of this for the past 2 weeks which we spent together. I learned this from her father. I clearly stated that she needed to come clean of anything she did BEFORE we start having sex again and that i would dump her if she was hiding stuff to get back together. Now that i dumped her for a third time i am afraid of bouncing back into the relationship like the retard i am.

So the question is when is it time to walk away? She was a virgin when we met so i feel responsibility and shit. Nevertheless i feel like i should end the relationship because she is a systematic liar & is extremely manipulative (hides truth from me too well).

Any advice is welcome.