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[+]recyclablebanthas1 points 3 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
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I was at a party and talking with some people. A girl randomly walked up to me and said my jacket looks like shit while I was having a conversation with another girl.
Can you clarify:
Had you met this girl before?
Had you interacted with her at the party before this?
Was she friends with the girl that you were talking to?
What was going on before that?
Had you met the girl you were talking to before that?
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I literally had no idea what to say....
There was nothing to say. Why should you have to answer something like that?
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....so I walked away from the whole group.
This was just you an intentionally turning a molehill into a mountain.
This girl walked up and acted rudely.
Think this through: exactly how does this reflect on you?
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Apparently my friend overheard that she and the group made fun of me behind my back afterwards.
It's possible that the girl was just bailing out her friend, if you had just met her and it was going more poorly than you realized.
That would be the main explanation why the group would join in making fun of you: as an answer to an awkward situation if you were trying to pick up on that girl and it was going awkwardly.
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What exactly was I supposed to do at this point?
There's no way to know without knowing the full context of the situation, what you unintentionally left out.
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[–]Mini-Pook 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Live and learn, fella. And never take it personally.
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"Thanks for the notice. But it's better than my manners to smell like shit"
[–]Smart_Entrance_1022 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"Aight"
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“So do you” and immediately back to your conversation
[–]TheGBHustle 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Not saying this is the correct thing to do but you gotta be quick with your replies, I personally would have said "Please can you move, I can smell your dirty breath from here"
[–]spaincrack 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
no, sucj direct insults just is an admission to engage in the dynamic she presented, you are giving herself power.
Just reply with a joke or comment and turn back into your previous comversation.
[–]TheGBHustle 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’ve done this plenty of times and it throws women off (in the UK). Depends on your confidence levels, my man. But I do also agree with what you said.
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[–]hypnomaster01 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thanks for noticing!
[–]naliao 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"Sounds like someone needs some therapy"
[–]Owls1279 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The peaceful side of me says ignore her & continue your conversation. The sarcastic side of me would say, “Good. It matches your face.”
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