After a couple weeks of trying to find a date to a hockey game tomorrow for my birthday, I came up with a 100% rejection rate.

I've been around the block for awhile, I used to know what I was doing, I ain't no chad but always had decent abundance game until early this year, there was alot going wrong in my life, had to bury my father and more recently my friend, and I took time off from people in general outside my circle of trust.

I can't honor the fallen by merely surviving, I need to start living again. I saw no reason to put off getting back out there. Whoever said repeated attempts increase confidence is full of shit, if there are 0 results for too long that can kill a persons confidence. As most of my past successes were with warm approach, I only asked out women that I'm already acquainted with and already had flirty banter with (social circle/my travels as a contractor). I didn't really experience any disrespectful rejections, but now I'm forced to resort to drunken cold approach and manipulative tactics that only work on garden tools.

The sick part is I know exactly what I'm doing wrong. I even know the #1 thing that attracts women, which is her knowing the guy has other options. It is very difficult to gain options when there is zero, nobody goes to the dealer to test drive the saturn that nobody is interested in, they want to test drive the McLaren that others are lining up to look at.

My question is; How the blue hell do I gain options starting with no options hence no social proof, and get this aura of failure off of me?!!