So I’m no chad, but I’m not a beta either. I have confidence out my ass on most days, although admittedly lack it on others, but I’m relatively good at hiding that truth. I do still sometimes seek approval from female friends when I sink low, obviously not a good pattern. But I just read something over in trp that I thought was interesting: “stop doing things for women, do it to them.” Just gonna clarify that this is not about to get rapey. On the contrary, I had been playing with the idea of kissing girls hands when I met them in social situations (ie out of school), but was unsure whether or not they would think its weird. Reading that maxim makes me think “who fucking cares if its weird.” So, hes the question: is this true? Is taking the initiative to kiss girls hands or even cheeks a classy and unique way to casually show them that I am willing to do things to them? Or does it put them on that pedestal that I already have a problem with?