This year has been kinda tough. Swallowed red pill this past summer and started university this fall known for being antisocial and empty campus with no activities. Rushed a fraternity and pledged but house got kicked off during pledge ship and everyone went their separate ways. So stuck without a house I have to wait until next month to rush. In the meantime I met a bunch of people along the way and got along with my roommates.

However the past month has been hard. No one hits me up anymore. My roommates have been locking themselves their room trying to avoid me and play video games all day. My group "friends" all stopped hitting me up. I have a joking personality which could piss or turn people off and sometimes take things too far but hey I'm a typical college guy. They are very blue pill and get offended by everything. One of the guys who I regarded as my closest friends only seems to talk to me when he needs help with something or wants my connections from my parents.

Last week I visited my sister who goes to school a few hundred miles away. An equally prestigious schools but known for huge greek life and wild parties. I had a great time, hooked up with different girls every night (thanks trp its like a cheat code) and met lots of new people with ease. However the weekend passed and now I'm super depressed that I am back at school with seemingly no friends (people are really cliquey and its hard to even talk to people) and the prospect that no fraternity will possibly take me due to what happened in the fall.

Need some advice on what I can do. Also my roommates both owe me a ton of money and haven't paid, whats the best way to get it back without doing anything dumb (I could easily beat the shit out of them if I wanted to).