I was wondering if others have the same experience. If a girl has less options, she doesn’t need to be hit on hard( many compliments and assurance that you like her) whereas a girl with options, will rather go for a guy who is more straightforward and gives her sexual attention. Example, just asking to exchange numbers will not work. You need to have multiple compliments and keep her laughing. The only exception is if you know her from a social group or you get to talk for a very long time to create that kind of connection. Hard to do that, and it’s easier to just be explicit and direct for 15 or 20 mins. Also during the date, you need to compliment and sexualize even if you don’t plan on sleeping together that very night. Just a purely intellectual connection is not most girls cup of tea.