Back story: I've spent the past 12 months drastically working on myself: Working out, skincare, better dress sense, a beard, etc. I was doing it to develop my self-esteem, but along the way I've noticed a major increase in female attention. Attention that I'm really not used to receiving.

I was recently out bar-hopping with some friends and just like old times, we ended up on the dancefloor.

I haven't been out to bars and clubs in 2-3 years but on this night, I noticed a lot more interest from women. Women were stopping me to talk, dancing with me, putting their arms around me, etc. Again, not something I'm really used to.

While on the dancefloor, it hits me: I have no idea how to escalate.

My friends on the other hand; making eye-contact and getting off with the girls within seconds. I don't know how I missed the A-B-C's of this stuff. Being so introverted in my teenage years probably didn't help.

What is the best way to escalate on the dancefloor where you can't effectively communicate?

Thanks!