How do women stay attracted to men as they age despite believing that men prefer younger women, also how are their moods not widely affected when they have such insecurities & negative thoughts about how the world sees older women negatively?

2022-04-28T21:21:49+00:00

Old people are unattractive. If a man over 50 is with a woman in her 30’s he has money and status. If a woman over 50 is with a guy in his 30’s he’s using her for sex and would never marry her or introduce her to family and friends.

2022-04-28T13:54:11+00:00

Ignore franniedelrey, she talks out of her ass.

Every person just wants to get whatever best mate they can get. It's biological of course, you want the best chances of survival and healthy offspring.

MOST women are most fertile when they are young of course. So 18-24 is your best bet. There are exceptions and some women look amazing even at 30+ but, again, most women are best at that age. Usually they don't have that much baggage so they don't hate guys and they don't blame it on the patriarchy, because they have a lot of advantages from it. But when they get older they turn bitter for the same reasons. Imagine playing a game on easy mode and then the difficulty gets harder and harder. You were not prepared for it, nobody told you that, so you will be upset. You don't get social skills or understand how to be a good friend and you end up bitter and mostly alone around 30, saying there are no more good men and your friends got married and don't care about you anymore.

Again, there are exceptions. But.. mostly women are a product of the society, if you spoil them and treat them with gloves, never tell them they are wrong just to fuck them, buy them stuff etc you are essentially contributing to the problem. You get spoiled brats that think they deserve anything.

Men on the other hand, except for a handful of pretty boys and guys born into money, must work to have any value. You need to understand people to have friends, you need to understand the world to make money, you need to learn and adapt.

There was a saying, there's nothing so valuable as a 20year old woman and so unvaluable as a 20yo man.

"Most actress interviews that I read online say how bad it is to be over 40 in entertainment and as a woman beauty wise for how the audience and male directors see you."

Because they usually bring nothing to the movie except beauty. Like Gal Gadot, she is God awful and she makes tons of money.

"Are these ingrained majority views that are casually held? For example men know to compliment a woman you tell her she looks younger and an insult is for a woman to be told that they look older."

Men know this because it had been drilled into the norms, like opening a door for a woman or stuff like that. We do this to be nice and be pleasant. Women used to do stuff like that too a while ago, now they think they confuse privileges with rights, like a guy HAS to pay for a date.

norwegiandoggo · 2022-04-28T14:53:33+00:00

What does this have to do with seduction? This is not a philosophy class 🤣 this subreddit is about achieving your dating / sex / relationship goals. Who gives a shit about what people think about age - it's irrelevant. Everyone has a different opinion. Anyone can date any age they personally prefer that's legal. I think you're into the weeds into off-topic land, unless you personally have an age-related dating problem

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