I haven’t asked a girl out since high school and I just graduated college last summer.

2022-02-12T00:03:38+00:00

Fuck. Fuck. Fuck. Ah shit. I guess good for you, but reminds me that im single for valentines. Again. I hate valentines.

recyclablebanthas · 2022-02-12T03:51:20+00:00

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What are some small baby steps I can use to change that?

I have my financial game down, working it and going to the gym 3 times a week.

Work at home, so I really don’t know where to game/ how . I have been going to book stores and new places

The first thing to realize is that seduction is a form of social interaction, which requires social skills.

It's not money. It's not physical fitness. You have to build up a social skill set. This might seem daunting but luckily it's a pretty simple matter if you approach it in a certain way.

2: Stacking the Deck

When learning a new skill, it's helpful to start with the basics and build up. That's why kids often start riding bikes with training wheels.

What you're doing now in trying to meet people at bookstores and the like, Is akin to throwing a 5-year-old on a 10-speed. You should cut yourself some slack because meeting people that way can be tricky even for "advanced" people.

So what are the training wheels here?

Normalize meeting new people and interacting with them is to join social groups that meet on a regular basis.

And how to do that? Find and hang out with social groups with at least some new people coming and going on a regular basis.

There are a lot of groups in this category that post information about their events publicly on social media for people who might want to join.

It's a good time to try something new. Try some new things even if you're not too sure about them at first. After a few times dump a group that doesn't suit you.

But having an open attitude will serve you here. Being picky and choosy about which groups you want even try, will not help you.

Title	I haven’t asked a girl out since high school and I just graduated college last summer.
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Date	February 12, 2022 12:00 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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