I know how this sounds, and no, I’m not improving myself solely just for women, but let’s not kid ourselves - we definitely want success/improvement to transfer into other parts of our life.

Personally, I’ve been feeling a little down recently, still working on myself but feeling meh nonetheless. Met one girl through common social circles but we ain’t talking and I saw a recent post just now and I got this tiny extra will to do some more exercise at home before I go to bed, bear in mind ive already done some today.

For some reason I still think I need to put on more weight and muscle before I should try approaching more, I know this is just an excuse, but my self esteem ain’t there yet.