Girl came to my place, but left immediately?

JacobMoogberg69 · 2022-02-03T15:50:02+00:00

Depends on how desperate you are, which you sound like you are. In this case keep asking her out since you are a glutton for punishment.

QueryRIT · 2022-02-03T16:13:55+00:00

Sounds like you pushed a bit too far. In the future, think more about buy in and investment. A pull should be a mutual thing, not one where you're push push pushing and then finally she gives in. Maybe she even actually liked you. But that doesn't mean she was fully comfortable. Sometimes, it's better to go to another intermediate venue, spend more time with her, and then maybe 45 min-1hr later then seeing if the vibe is more on. Or, ya know, leaving that til a next date. So right now back off, leave space for a few days, and see if you can't get her out for next weekend.

I was a little needy though (said I wanted to see her again the weekend and she said maybe next weekend (she already said she had plans)).

In the future, stop trying to get binding contracts on the heels of this kind of energy. The most important thing is to reiterate that you had a good time and that maybe you can do it again sometime. But trying to get firm commitments out of her when she was already ready to leave and a bit uncomfortable is just not a winning strategy.

Title	Girl came to my place, but left immediately?
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Comments	8
Date	February 3, 2022 3:11 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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