Hello all, I have stagnated a bit with my game so I thought I would write about my approaches and related things with girls. Seduction is not my focus in life or anything, but I reckon it would be fun to look back on my stories and it would be useful to see what y'all think and where I went wrong. My writing will probably be shit too so please feel free to tell me how unbelievably illiterate I am and how I can improve, haha.

I also realised that I like to read these types of stories. But sometimes there are not many. The closest thing is that 5'7 pick up guy (big respect to him by the way), but that is night-game.

I encourage others to write about their approaches, since I will probably stop at some point

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About myself: College student studying a STEM degree, 5'11 (don't want to be too specific for privacy reasons)

Also, I actually didn't come to this topic (seduction) due to me wanting to get girls. I actually wanted to be more social, able to talk and connect to many people. One of my friends introduced me to this topic directly. So my game is based a bit more on my ability to connect to people. I don't think about 'abundance mentality', ' push and pull', etc. explicitly, but I think that I do think about these qualities implicitly.

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Okay, this is not my first approach at college of course, but this is my most recent one.

I was leaving a computer lab, and saw a South Asian girl walking behind me. I slowed down, turned around and asked if she was in my lab. It turned out that she was, so I asked her how she found it. She said she nearly finished it, and was proud of that. I said I finished it completely, and she was a bit surprised.

Anyway, we kept on walking, and we were just talking about general stuff. I asked her which accommodation she was at, she said she lived off-campus, and how she was going to the gym. I don't remember too much about the specifics of the conversation to be honest.

While walking with her I told her she might as well take my snap. She took her phone and added me while we were walking (I couldn't anyway, my phone had no charge).

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Quick aside, I sometimes see users here say that asking for social media is a cop-out, and you should go for the number. Now, I don't know if this is a generational thing, but no one asks for your actual number. That is reserved for personal/emergency situations. You know, family, good friends, etc. To be honest, to me it seems old-fashioned, kind of like faxing someone.

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Anyway, a funny thing that happened after was that I asked where she was from, and she told me to guess. I guessed South Asia and asked if she was born there. A bit shocked, she asked if she sounds like she was, so I was like either South Asia or the capital (people from the capital can sound pretty weird to me). Turns out she was born in the capital on my country, funnily enough. She did the same for me, I told her of course.

We now had to split off, so I told her that we should definitely meet up and hang out soon, and she agreed right there. This is the first time I've specifically told someone like this, but I thought I should try it so that I am a bit more straight-forward about my intentions (I mean, what the hell is the point of getting someone's contact in this type of situation if you don't have any intention of meeting them, haha).

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Oh, since this was yesterday, I'll tell you what happened later that day:

I went back to my place, then did some stuff. I went to play some basketball, and after I texted her asking her to get coffee with me at midday. She said she was busy at the time I proposed we go, saying she has practise for some sport, but we should do it after. I gave a different time after, and she said she would still training, and told me her training is 12-3.

After this I said I'll see if I'm free on Thursday or Friday to get coffee, and when I am free I'll ask her to go then. She was down for that.

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All in all I think she is down to meet up, but if that is not the case, so be it. I am also aware that I need to meet her soon to increase the odds that she'll actually meet up.

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What are your thoughts?