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[–]Affectionate-Bat-235 4 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
Bars have been dead. Literally anywhere else works.
[–]starlord78 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
What other places would you recommend? I've had no luck finding anyone at malls and stores so far.
[–]Affectionate-Bat-2351 point 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Look specifically for places lots of people go too. It's less creepy that way. If your not around your preferred women, your job is to put yourself there!
[–]joshedelman17 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The trouble is that girls don’t go out anymore. Why would they go to a bar for attention when I they can post a picture from the comfort of their home and get thousands of likes and DMs, then she can decide which guy she wants to respond to.
I’m the same way man. I’ve gone out to malls and bars and rarely see any girls. Especially at bars. The game has changed and your best options are through online self improvement, social circles you are in, or keep doing what you’re doing. It’s a journey.
[–]Melinored -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Jesus christ, I was just reading a book about cold approaching but your story slapped me right in the face. It means that even cold approaching, the best strategy till now given out by every single pickup guru is not working.
[–]starlord78 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I'd say cold approaching does indeed work. My last girlfriend I asked out by approaching her at her job. Its just that I can't find anyone to go one on one with. I guess I'm just going to have to buck up and start approaching women when they're with friends
[–]Melinored -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It seems so sad that as we are progressing forward as a society but it's becoming fucking difficult to even talk to a girl you like, let alone becoming friends and sharing moments of intimacy. Competition is intense, and there is just one guy who is having it all, while the others line up.
[–]DoomerToChad 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It does work though. I met a couple of girls already through cold approach and I am a total beginner.
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