I have only one plate and I dont want to lose her tbh.

I know I should not care, but I do, because I dont have more. And dating is really making me tired mentally to be honest.

We had one sex, she sent me messages immediately after I left. Last msg in convo was her.

I initiated our first sexual meeting. Its been 5 days. Is it ok if I ask her for next meeting or wait till she reaches?