Hello everyone! How are you?

While i was trying to sleep, i was thinking about something, that what could be the difference between the nice guy mindset and the bad boy mindset, i saw different guys (nice guys and bad guys) with couples, and i came to a conclusion, the mindset and how we treat women, part of it it have to do with what our mother/father told us since we was a kid, and our past experiences with women, some nice guys for example, was son of a single mother, where he saw a woman as an autorithy figure instead of their father (men) or where the kid was beaten by their mother, or had bad experiences with females, getting on his subconsious "women hate me" "women are better than me" "i need to do difficult things to get a girl" "they are out of my reach" While i see a "bad boy" or something similar to that style, and i see and they had their father (who is a bad boy or cocky funny) and from what i see from my point of view, this boy (more of bad boy mentallity) makes himself respect with women, or doesnt expect a bad trait by them, unlike the nice guy who was beaten by her mother, or was son of a single mother or had bad experiences with females during his childhood, it stayed ingrained that lie or that distortion that women are superior than him, hence the reason why this "nice guy" see is difficult to have a gf, while the other boy (bad boy) who have ingrained other mindset, have gf, i think this is some very interesting, i was thinking of this, seeing different men, more prone to nice guys and others more prone to bad boys, and in nice guys i see their put women above them, while bad biys doesnt have that mindset, they put themselves equally or above the girls, and thinking it now, is our mindset and what we think that reflects on our behavious with the people, hence is obious that the nice guy of the first example gets dificult to get a gf, by his behaviours showed to the girl, while the other guy gets a gurlfriend,

Is the same but inverted, what girl would be more atracyive to us and we would want more? The girl who is confident and expect respect from men? Or the girl who put us on a pedestal and expect maybe a bad traits against her?

Does anyone knows how to change a mindset or limiting beliefs? How to stop thinking that a women is better than men?

In my experience, i have female attention, but because my mother hitted me for my bad behaviour, i think it stayed on my subconsious the idea that "i have to behave nice, if not a woman can left me or can get angry with me" so in order to avoid this i behave like a nice guy (maybe) I would really apreciate any advice to help me fix this mindset! 🎸🍻

And thank you very much for reaching to this point of the post!