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norwegiandoggo · 2022-01-03T06:36:19+00:00

Everyone wants what they can't have right? You have to decide how much you want the girls you go out with to be Asian. And if is worth that higher likelihood of getting rejected. You might also not get the hottest Asians but possibly will have to aim a bit lower if you're dating ourside the niché that typically works for you. At least to begin with until you crack the Asian dating code.

Note: Why do you think Asian women like white guys or other Asians? If you're in the United States, it's because those ethnicities on average have higher social status than Hispanics. Whites and Asians are on average better educated, have more money and resources, and are more respected in society. It's much easier for them to bring home a white guy or other Asian to get the approval of their family (which is very important to a lot of Asians)

So for you to offset the stereotype that Hispanics have lower social status it would probably benefit you to give off high-so vibes in other ways. Like get a prestigious education, talk like a smart person, dress preppy, be respected in your community, obtain status in respectable ways and so on and so forth. You have to break many of the negative Hispanic stereotypes. And there are a lot of them in the United States. Hispanics are the most discriminated group in the United States, so the list of negative stereotypes is huge. The three worst ones that you need to disassociate yourself from are the negative stereotypes that Hispanics are poor, uneducated, and criminals. As for hobbies, you might want to take up some other high-so stuff like tennis, horse riding, or golf.

Now, this kind of direction is a lot of effort just to get with Asians. So you really have to decide if you think that's worth it. An alternative is to aim for Asians who actually have a bit lower status themselves for other reasons. For example, they are parts of Asia that are associated with lower socio-economic status. And not all Asians are high-so. So this type of selection of lower-socio-ecomonic status Asian women is an option to consider as well. For example, you might do better with a woman from Myanmar than Singapore. Asia is freaking huge. I also don't know if you're including India as part of "Asians" which most Americans don't do for some reason. I don't think dating Indians is going to be a problem for a Hispanic dude. It's mostly the East-Asian women rather than the South-Asian women who hold more racially discriminating dating preferences.

I know this sounds racist. But when you're asking about race in the first place, that's kind of in the cards.

JacobMoogberg69 · 2022-01-03T05:43:51+00:00

Jesus Christ man, the self hate in this thread is astonishing.

ResponsibilityRare72 · 2022-01-03T04:37:23+00:00

Don’t bother lmao, Asians are CUCKED for white bois. No point chasing

2022-01-03T04:18:12+00:00

No. Keep trying. Remember, it’s a numbers game. While the ratios might be different. You’ll eventually find one.

b_a_d_r0b0t · 2022-01-03T08:12:04+00:00

The question is, will they go for you?

AchievingDreamer1221 · 2022-01-03T16:04:55+00:00

Im a black guy who has been talking to a South Asian girl for a while. I never thought id be with an Asian girl but it happened. At the end of the day everyone has their preferences and will go for what pleases them. If you have that appeal that they are looking for, then good for you. If not, then don't worry about it. Give it your best shot and see where it goes. Rejection is only temporary and more often than not, they may surprise you.

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