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[–]JacobMoogberg69 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I'm assuming you lean butch, so I would look for the same signals that I look for as a guy. Look for the girls who have their back towards the bar and their body language is open toward the crowd and dance floor. Their head is on a swivel looking for a suitable alpha male or female to take them and do dirty stuff with. Look for girls who are also showing some skin, bright lipstick, etc. Avoid the ones huddled up in a group or the ones who are out to just get attention. You can smell the horny ones.
Approach confidently and whisper something dirty in her ear. From there just talk to her but be sexual as well, being up sex early on, don't let her see you as just another chick, you want her to see as someone who will put her legs over hear ears and will finger bang that pussy to oblivion.
[–]bobaho3 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Haha okay. Oh im actually fem. I think this is good advice. Lots of the girls that are down are pretty rough, hair pulling, touchy touchy, I like that though. The one that was smacking my lips wore like a tight long sleeve ,jeans , and vans. That's how I knew she played for different teams. Thinking of things to whisper in their ears now for the next venue aha. Thanks!
[–]JacobMoogberg69 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Hm interesting! Well, my advice won't be as helpful then. But what I would look for is a bit of a masculine energy, how the girl carries herself, if she a bit rough around the edges. Then you can do the whole hover around her and stare into her soul so she approaches you. If you need to encourage her to lead, ask her something like "so what are you going to do with me tonight?" and let her take the hint and get you out of there.
[–]bobaho3 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oooooo. Ima use this! Thanks!
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I'd suggest going to a gay club so there is no confusion. Man clubbing as a guy many times is a bust if you don't already know the girl before you bring her, and guys will probably be hitting on her all night if you do know her. I've gone plenty of times only to get rejected majority of the night what a waste of $20 or $30 cover.
Yeah guys hit on me all the time. And I reject them. I do dance w some for fun, but that's the furthest we go. Oh I definitely do go to the gay ones. My friends take me to the non gay ones, they're not bad. I usually dance w many girls regardless.
I get to that dancing point, some I can tell r straight, but some are down , but idk how to escalate it beyond dancing. I gotta whisper some gay shit in their ear or something lol.
There's just a higher guy ratio and some girls are not there for guys but for dancing and drinks. I'd suggest being different from the herd. They are too horney or corny. They will either start rubbing their nuts on you or say, hey what's your name.
Does that work? I'm pretty sure it will eventually but just remember 10 guys probably tried that already and sometimes it's not you , it's them, they just want to dance with their friends.
I'm not gonna stop, just up your game and keep trying, it ain't my fault.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You got it pretty close... It's about escalation. But one thing you got to stop doing is making out for a long period of time. It should be about 2 second then you pull away.
When you pull away, you have her wanting more. Now it's harder to find a girl who is willing to go all the way with another female, compared to a guy, because most girls are interested in the opposite gender.
Yes they will make out with you. If a girl is drunk enough, she will make out with anybody. Male or Female, but doesn't mean that she wants you.
You kiss them for 2-3 seconds, then you leave. Walk to a different side of the club, and just try to dance or go over to the bar and wait.
This creates a want from her. You are having fun, and she will want in on that fun. While you're on the other side of the club, check for eye contact. Make constant eye contact and smile.
Don't go back over there. Just wait. If she comes back over to you, you are golden. If she doesn't, she is not interested
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