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How To Be Less Affected By The Judgment OF OTHERS!

If you want to have an amazing dating life this is going to be so key! You have to get out of your comfort zone and do what others around you won’t do and that often means stepping out of the ‘’norms’’ of society.

Ultimately women want to meet men who create their own rules and do things at their own pace in their own way.

Overcoming the judgement of others is very critical for this to happen.

#1 Make acting from your core your number one priority

If you desire to say something, act in a certain way or do something then make sure to do that. Every time you act from your core, consider it a ‘’small win’’ in the bigger game of becoming a person who does whatever he wants.

Realize that people who are truly doing what they want have all accumulated small wins over a period of many years, these small wins gives them momentum to do/say incredible things.

There is nothing inherently wrong with you if you are a person that’s limited by the judgement of others, it’s just that you haven’t started the process of accumulating small wins and letting them stack over a period of time.

#2 The Win IS DOING RIGHT BY YOU NOT WHAT YOU GET EXTERNALLY

There’s an insane catch 22 here, everyone cares about results and wants the best results for themselves, but the people who ‘’care’’ the ‘’most’’ about results often don’t get them.

You have to learn how to forget about the external results and get lost in the play of doing what you want.

In a way you can say that doing what you want in the moment is the ultimate result.

It’s a game of execution: how much of yourself can you be daily?

To learn how to speak up and go for the things that you want (focusing your mind on the process) instead of worrying about the outcome.

In the end it’s not the outcomes that truly make you feel free and happy. It’s the process that creates liberation.

The ultimate freedom is the person you become by doing right by you every day.

If you want to go up and talk to more women and be more expressive it’s not the women that you get that will make you feel warm and bubbly… It’s that you are doing what you want that makes you feel amazing.

It’s the same with people looking up to you. More often they don’t look up to you because of what you have externally or materialistically, it’s about the person who you are.

I can say this as a man who has slept with many women in his life and what’s more important to me is knowing I can go out and meet women. That I have skills that are with me forever in understanding social dynamics and how to navigate the situations that happen in my life.

It’s the confidence gained from putting myself out there and really doing what I want!

I often don’t even remember many of the girls I have hooked up with. The memories of one night stands and random lays here and there are already forgotten.

But the confidence, charm, charisma, and love for myself is here.

This is what I want you to achieve and realize because it’s readily available for everyone who reads this.

Start stacking small wins by doing what you desire in each moment and eventually it will snowball and push you towards the greatness that you deserve.

Cheers,
Jayden