Dear PUAs, 

The Seduction Community 

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My expectations from the respected members of this holy Community: 

  1. After you read this post, do give me an honest rating between 1 to 10. (1 would mean a novice player, and 10 would mean a PUA).

  2. Help me find my biggest "FLAW". So that I can climb to 10/10 rating. 

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First I'll present the brief field reports- before I knew about "Game", then I'll talk about the field reports after I knew about this vast community. 

Right now, I'm about 23 and am studying Law. 

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Before: 

I was an Average Frustrated Chump (AFC). 

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  1. When I was in elementary school, my crust (name: N**ya) had come to my seat and sat near me. I could hardly utter a word, couldn't even look into her eyes.. For entire two months this cute girl sat on the very next seat to me, I did the aforementioned exact same stuff. I did nothing. 

One of my "friend" introduced him to her as ,"Hey, I am *Seneca's best friend, my friend *Seneca doesn't want to talk to you, my name is xyz, I wanted to talk to you, you are very good" ... He stared talking to her and when we were in high school, they were actually having sex.  

(Who was him? ...Brutus?) 

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  1. In the high school, my then crush (name: M**si) 'approached' me and asked for my help related to studies, which I did. When I would enter the classroom, she would smile at me, and say Hi. This went on for months. I did nothing. Another friend of mine let's call him pqr, one fine day, he went to her and said, "hey, I like your dress. But, you know what my friend *Stoic doesn't like you much, if he did then he would have asked you out. But, I do, can we go on a lunch this sunday?" She said- "Maybe, bla bla, Ok". ... Before we went for college, they were having sex.  

(Who was this? ...Another Brutus?)

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  1. Fast foreward.. In the Law school a guy forgot his (then) latest iphone at the library. I picked it up and ran after him to return it. He thanked me for my kindness. :-) Two days later, he came up and said, "Hey dude thanks a lot for that day. I wanna tell that the girl standing at the corridor is my new girlfriend. (Name: Tan**). I already have one, she is second. But. If you want, I can introduce you to her." 

I looked at her, she was good enough. But, my self-respect came in between. I didn't wanted to get a girlfriend as a charity, I wanted to her her with my own efforts. Thus, I said No. 

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  1. I became good enough in academics as well as in sports. One of my female friend (name:Pr***a) said, "I love you *Stoic." I just laughter and deflected the topic. Why? Because, I had friend-zoned her?? Well yeah, my self respect doesn't allow me to fu*ck my friends. 

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  1. My law school crush (name- Pa**k) : We were in an important class lecture. She was reading 50shades of grey during the class. I saw book's front cover and smiled. She too smiled. She became my crush from that day. But but but, I was too busy in the academics and research papers that I hardly talked to her. She (innocently) bumped into me, talked to me. I wanted her, but I was busy. I didn't know what was going on. 

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  1. It was a friend's (name:S*t**v*n) marriage. One girl in her mid 20s was looking at me. I too looked. We smiled, and had intense eye contact for 2-3 minutes. Things were on. I wanted to talk to her, but none of my friends supported my move. I dropped the idea, and went with them. 

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  1. In a subway, I met a girl. She was cute. We were going at same destination. Number exchange. But, she didn't responded well. 

  2. Next day subway, met another girl. Same thing happened. Didn't responded well on the phone. 

  3. Next day subway, met another girl. Same stuff. 

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  1. Few days later, I saw a cute girl at the airport. I approached her and asked about the terminal. 

My conversation was totally based upon the flight, I didn't flirted though I wanted to. A few moments later, her younger brother had joined and he helped me to find the way. He was very friendly, the giri too was smiling, but I didn't took the initiative to ask her them for an instant coffee, not did I took the conversation any further. 

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11,12,13. Next few days, I met a few women at the park near our apartment. I hit on three different women. Didn't know three were married. I still talked for a while, didn't got number from any. [We three friends have rented a three BHK apartment near the college. One is married, another is engaged to his girlfriend. And I am single. Haha.]

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  1. Weeks later, a cute girl asked me for direction to the library. I told her. A senior friend of mine told me that- "this girl is not new in the college. She must be already knowing where is the library..., hmm, ...man she wanted to talk to you. Go and start a conversation. Just go!" I went after her. We talked for a while, but She politely refused to giver her number. I felt bad. A few days later, she saw me giving a speech on the stage. After the event, she tried to talked to me, but I refused. (Why? Because my ego must have stepped in. Later, I regretted doing so.) [It was a prepared speech. So I didn't felt much stage fright]. 

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  1. Weeks later, I hit on a young college professor (28). She was single, she once mentioned it. We talked, did a Number exchange. But, she refused to come on a date, saying that I was just too young. Only 22.  

I wasn't persistent enough. 

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  1. Weeks later, I hit on another girl at campus. Cute. Number exchange. Sex chat at night for 2 hours. We scheduled a meet up next evening. She flaked saying that she's going to Church. 

I felt bad. I was needy. 

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  1. Weeks later, One cute girl approached me. She was damm hot. One of the most beautiful woman that I'd ever met. She was in the front cover of college magazine, twice. I recalled that one of my friend (had told me that he masturbated on that magazine cover). Oh! God, she was real hot. She threw an indirect situational opener (I later got to know about this terminology). She talk about weather, "isn't it really cold today?" I said, "yes". I wanted to talk to her, but I was frozen. 

I regret not talking to her, not even shaking hands or giving a hug or asking for her number or going on an instant date. 

After this incident. My self confidence had gone very low.

A few days later, in the college campus, a cute girl was eating ice cream. I smiled at her. She stopped on her way. I got approach anxiety. I didn't approached. She went away after 30 seconds wait. 

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17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24. Eight total approaches. I did went to some clubs during my first year in college. Approached women there. Two, I remember, didn't even talked to me. Two number exchange, but I didn't follow up. And four women gave me shit test. Failed all four. 

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After these 24 approaches, I hit on the internet. Got to know about "Game".

In the past few months, I've watched 100s of youtube videos. I read at least 8 PUA books by now and have taken 2 video courses on PUA. 

Honestly, I feel quite overburdened with theory. But, I can handle it well, when I can handle dozens of thick law books, I surely have the ability to grasp and apply this material.

(Now, I'm in the final year of law school.)

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Earlier, I don't feel confident enough. But, now I know the plan. I've got the solid systems to implement. 

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Earlier, I felt like: I don't want to quit, but I am getting anxiety whenever I "try" to hit the field. 

Now, I have this advice with me (which I read inn one of the material): You hit the field so many time that you even forget such a thing even exist.

Come on Seneca, you can do. Take action! and be a closer!!#

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• More of my (genuine)excuses- (help me on this one, please)

"Seneca, You gotta appear for next semester exams, and then you need to prepare for Bar Council exam; you don't have time for all this pickup stuff. You are good enough even without girlfriend (s)."

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How I can counter this above thought?

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Yours 

Seneca The Stoic