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Before you start thinking to yourself ‘’Oh, here’s another guy telling me how to sleep with women quickly’’ ‘’What an asshole’’.

Give me a moment to explain a new viewpoint that will actually help you a lot in your dating life. My goal here is to remove pressure away from you and help you feel more calm, relaxed and actually get some results!

#1 Give The Woman What She Wants! Become Her Drug Dealer.

Normally men think they have to do all sorts of things to get laid, and often in the process of doing those things or thinking about those things they forget about the woman's wants and desires.

Realize that the pressure you experience is always based on your performance.

Instead of trying to think you have to ‘’do something’’, start to figure out what she wants. What’s her intention? What does she need right now?

Aim to get out of your head and into her head by asking yourself the questions above.

Don’t be so quick to ‘’do something’’. Instead lean back, relax and see if you can notice more of her and see if you can start to become in tune with her wants and desires.

Maybe you notice that she’s careful and hesitant or reserved, and needs more conversation.

Maybe you notice she loves silence.

Maybe you notice that she’s horny and ready to go.
Maybe you notice that she’s heartbroken and still in love with her ex.

Maybe you notice she’s in a party mood and wants to have fun.
Etc.…

Aim to see what’s right for the moment (as opposed to what you want)

#2 Don’t Judge Your Dates

Almost all of the women I have slept with very quickly: 1,5 hour or less, sometimes even in 5-30 minutes have all been women who were DTF.

The mistake a lot of men make is to think every girl is DTF or they aim to move their dates/conversations forward as though the assumption is that the girl is already ready.

What’s much better is to come into each conversation / date / approach as a blank slate.

  • You have no assumptions.
  • You have no goals.
  • You have no particular preferred outcome.
  • You don’t need to ‘’prove’’ anything to yourself.

You are just there to hangout, take the moment for what it is and work from there.
In this way you can become her drug dealer.

If she needs a quick lay, you'll give her that ASAP. If she needs comfort/security and long talks you give her that. If she needs to get to know you more or spend more time you give her that.

You have to learn how to not judge your dates on ‘’sexual’’ outcomes and instead think of progressing with the girls that you meet.

Don’t judge yourself and pressurize yourself to reach some kind of instant outcome, and in the same way if a girl is needing too much comfort and time spent together to be intimate you might want to let her go.

The key is about balance and desiring to become a balanced individual.

A man who can serve women who are ready and want to fck right now and also women who need a little bit more time and patience.

You want to be able to do both instead of trying to specialize in one category.

So in essence sleeping with women quickly will happen when they are asking you for it in their behavior toward you.

Girls who are very DTF always have impatient behavior, they hint and suggest hooking up and they are actively helping you get into their pants. It’s very easy to spot this.

In the same way the girls who aren’t yet ready for something will often be more reserved (there are levels to her reservation) and if you want you can decide to create a more relaxing atmosphere combined with spending more time and these women are also bound to open up to you.

A lot of women are actually opposed to the ‘’instant’’ hookup and it’s important to recognize this early on because if you don’t and you act ‘’eager’’ or try to move things forward quickly you are just going to burn your chances with her.

These women want to test you by seeing if you can just hang out and be yourself even if hooking up doesn't happen.