So, I recently got out of 5 year long relationship and had my share of misery. Now I improved a bit and decided to get on Tinder. I had a date with this girl and after a few beers we made out and decided to go to her place. Now, the weird part. She looks decent, sexy etc. but I was kind of weirded out that I didn't get hard immediately when we kissed and hugged in the bar. Normally, with my ex-gf of 5 years, it was enough that we sat close to each other or she touched me or hugged and I was already hard like a stone, even in public places. With this girl, even when we were at her place, I undressed her (she had a better body than my ex), we were kissing etc. I still couldn't get hard, lol. Fortunately, when we undressed completely and the lights went off, I finally was ready and managed to fuck her for over an hour straight but I couldn't finish and eventually lost my erection. She asked if everything is ok, I just nodded and told her it's probably too much beer. But I'm not really sure if it was alcohol.

I've never, ever had such a problem but this is the second girl I had sex with in my life. Before I had sex with my ex-gf we got to know each other really well and we first started with light stuff, got to sex only after like 5 months (we were both virgins and romantic types that idealise relationships and sex. Also no good place for fucking as we were young), and now I banged this new chick on the first date. My LTR ended almost two months ago.

Is this normal? If so, how do I combat this?