Hello everyone!! I(18f) have been talking to someone(18m) for a month or so. In the beginning we had great conversations, but we couldn't go out because we were both on vacations. After a month we finally went out last week and he did some things that were kind of red flags* for me but that didn't mean we didn't have fun. Also, I have to mention that 2 weeks before we go out he started being a little distant from me.

Anyways, I was thinking that he should ask me out next time since I did it the first time, but he hasn't asked me out and he isn't as talkative as he was at first, so I believed that there is no point in talking to him once or twice a day so I tried to end it yesterday. However, he tells me that there is no reason to end it here and I told him that this isn't enough for me and basically he said that we only went out once, what is exactly not enough for you etc. Yes, maybe I was a little extra but I don't know how to handle this now. I feel like this isn't going anywhere and I really wanted it to work, but he doesn't put any effort so that's why I told him that.

*red flags: didn't talk at all, made out for 3 hours, distant, didn't remember that we had a date that day, brought a condom with him and showed it to me while I had told him that I was a virgin, left me by myself when I was leaving outside of a park im the dark

What should I do? Tell him that he's right I'm a little extra and I didn't think clearly or leave it?