Like I try to talk to them and take interest in what they have to say. I also try to be funny and flirty but it never works lol. I realize I'm not good at escalating the situation and I'm also not super interesting as a person altogether, but that being said I don't think I need to be a social skills guru to get a girl interested in me, right? Also this is probably besides the point, but I am a relatively attractive guy and I do take care of my body. I think my biggest problem is that I come across as either boring or kinda trying too hard (not because I go overboard with my flirting, but because I think people can tell I'm kind of outside my comfort zone and don't really know what I'm doing), and for that reason I tend to be more successful when I'm drunk lol. Is there something I should try differently? What's a successful way to escalate a situation?