Yesterday I (m24) hanged out with a friend (m 22) from the gym in a highly touristic area. At a certain point he sees a group of four girls walking, changes expression walks up to them and says “ do you know if they’re still throwing a party at x bar?” He started talking with them and in less than a minute he managed to get all 4 numbers and ig profile. After that he told us that girls are usually approached by horny douches, the trick is to appear as a friendly refined and approachable.

This put us in a good mood and became a lot more social considering that our group of yesterday was made by people who barely knew each other, and we started talking with strangers. I haven’t flirted because I’m still working on my fear of approach but I have decided that i will copy him.