I'm a fairly good looking 23M who is a recent college graduate. Not really sure the best way to put in words but I'll try. Over the last 4-5 years my encounters with women have been strictly hook ups and short term flings. My only serious girlfriend who I was head over heels in love with, was when I was about 17-18, and ended pretty poorly imo when I found out she had cheated on me, I would say I have somewhat of trust issues because I don't want to go through something like that again. I believe a combination of this and the mindset of really not wanting anything serious while I was in college has really troubled me now. I don't even really know how to go about entering a relationship and not just some thing where we hook up a couple times and then eventually stop talking. I've been really working on myself recently when it comes to physical appearance as well as trying to be a better and nicer human in general. I know this post in kinda corny but I really would like to give it a try in finding someone special. Any advice helps :)