Ok...There is a whole long story and I can write so much more, but I will try to be concise in my post and give as much relevant details as I can for some good feedback. Disclaimer: I agree with and follow Red Pill ideologies but don’t always apply them to my relationships as a hard and fast rule. I also don’t know all the RP terminology that would be relevant below but tried. Here goes:

Background Details: I met a lady about my age (36) we started dating and the relationship began as mostly sexual. I couldn’t get enough of her and she couldn’t get enough of me. We lived a couple hours away from each other so when we were away from each other we would video chat. Day to day stuff, but she always called me when she showered or masturbated nightly so I could watch. We took the mojoupgrade test and when together we checked off everything we could manage to accomplish. Adventurous stuff. I wouldn’t say she was a ‘unicorn’, but close to it...what’s that, like a snow owl or something...lol? We were close as possible to GF/BF but never decided to get really serious because when we met she was already planning to move out of state and I was seeing somebody else at the time as well. Being that we weren’t serious, and sort of had an open relationship by default, I always gave her the option to see other girls or guys, but she never saw the need to do that. I was what she was looking for and she is actually what I was looking for as well, but it’s complicated. This relationship went on for about 8 months.

Current Details: She moved out of state about 6 months ago. She still has not seen anybody else and has been concentrating on growing her business there. When our schedules align she flies in to visit me for a weekend of crazy, unadulterated passion. I welcome her visits, but I’m still seeing the other lady as well. Here’s the twist...although she has always known about my other, more serious relationship, and I’ve also always been open to her seeing other people as well, her love for me has taken an emotional toll on her. A love she can never have and was never supposed to be sort of thing. She has decided she doesn’t want to continue this sexual relationship right now and try to focus on finding herself a more traditional boyfriend situation (beta dude?) local to her. I know she loves me and I do love her as well...but I can’t be that boyfriend she needs emotionally.

Question: She wants to remain ‘friends’ and talk, but I feel she may just want to keep me around (plate me?) for emotional support until she finds a real boyfriend where she currently lives...after which, I think our contact would probably fall off over time. I think she is wanting an orbiter...? I normally wouldn’t entertain such nonsense, but there is always the possibility that we will hook up again for a crazy weekend so I don’t really want to ghost or next her. It’s that good... What’s the best move here? I’m looking for feedback on how to handle the situation where I can keep my sexual options open with her long term but not be pseudo-boyfriend she needs emotionally right now...she has always said “I don’t believe in cheating, but it doesn’t matter what relationship I am ever in, I would still cheat on him with you because the sex is so bomb”, that’s a quote... I should add that none of the above story is me bragging or trying to elevate my sexual prowess, just giving some details relevant to the situation.

I hope there’s enough details provided, if I missed anything I will try to fill in details or answer questions in the comments...