A pua friend led me to this group. Maybe the community can chime in and help a brother out. So here's a little backstory i met my wife 3years ago. She went on holidays in my country and we hit it off. It was great, chemistry is there of course, we loved each other. I got her knocked up and she had to ran away from her family and stay with me. She's muslim btw and at first she had all the characteristics you would like for someone to be your wife. So she stayed with me for awhile till tensions calmed down with her family then she went back there to give birth. At the time i was still in university so basically broke asf and it took us 2 years till we saw each other again last February. 2 years because we're on opposite sides of the world. And goddamn everything is just so different. Like we had a great time of course I'm with my baby girl and her but there was this day that just keeps fucking with my mind. She never used to drink but suddenly she's open to it and to me it's no big deal ofc then we went to a bar and i introduced my friends. She's new to drinking and obviously she got drunk immediately and we were having fun then she started trying to dance with my friend but he had the bro code of course then tried to get away and hence here it begins the most embarrassing thing a husband can go through. Trying to chase and calm down your "thot" wife. Just everything was fucked up even my friends were joking that "goddamn your wife is thirsty" . She didn't even want to be near me and was just doing stupid shit. With my experience going out and gaming for years i saw her body language and its the exact same with the girls we used to go out with while they had boyfriends worried at home. And we were there and those girls would have the time of their life with us. It just fucks with me so much because of all the self development i feel like I'm heading in a situation i feared of being in my whole life. Have a wife who's fucking around and then come home and tell me she loves me and its all okay. I'm so pissed because i have a kid and obviously i don't want her to grow up and be fucked up. I don't know if I'm just overthinking too much but I'm just stuck and fucked up. Any thoughts or advice on my situation? Thanks guys