How to ask friend if I can come over to cuddle?

Dutchcat1077 · 2021-05-16T20:45:53+00:00

Be cute about it. Dinner and a movie? If you bet a yes, feel out the vibe once you get there and act accordingly

Thick_Ad_7637 · 2021-05-16T21:13:33+00:00

Man, this is a toughie. If you're only trying to cuddle, maybe you should try the Kino Escalation Ladder. Basically it talks about how to accordingly make your way from handshakes, hugs and shoulder pats, to the more intimate of hugs (or cuddles), hand holding, hands on arm,thigh,etc and then finally to the top, which is where all bedroom activities go.

I recommend working your way up so that cuddles are just a natural thing you and her do. Otherwise, you just going to her place and trying to start cuddling with her may cause some resistance, especially if you never really touched her in that sort of way before.

I know this didn't really answer your question on what to ask but i can't really give you a good answer that won't lead to you dating her or her being shocked and pulling back from you when you're at her place and make a move all of a sudden, even if it's just to "cuddle".

Hopefully i was able to give you some insight on which you can think on and perhaps change what you're doing with her so that you won't even have to go to her house to just cuddle......if that's truly what you really want.

The_Bird_Fox · 2021-05-16T20:55:29+00:00

From what you've said, it sounds like she might not be interested in doing something as intimate with you as cuddling. Besides that, there's not really a right way to ask about something as specific as that. That would be more of an in the moment kind of thing in my opinion. It sounds like you're more of this girl's friend then a romantic interest, so keep that in mind before you push your interests in that direction. Even if your intentions aren't sexual or romantic, they can still be perceived that way.

Title	How to ask friend if I can come over to cuddle?
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Date	May 16, 2021 8:38 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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