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[–]Titmousewoodpecker 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It’s a numbers game. You didn’t find the right one today but you will if you keep trying.
[–]Floloppi[S] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah i think my issue is that i really have to start escalating, to take action... its like the first approach you do, you’re so nervous and feared of rejection but the more often you approach the better you get. Yesterday would habe been my first escalation ever, so i will keep up trying and get better!
All the girls i had a date with, where i didn’t escalate ghosted me afterwards. I guess its my personal issue
[–]Titmousewoodpecker 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Message me and I can help you with some things you can do to check where she is on inviting escalation or if there is nothing happening. It’s body language.
[–]kaish06 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I had a date too, but in my opinion, I did not do very well ( sounds like a job interview LOL). I texted her the same day saying that I had a great time with her and asked her for a second date. She responded she has plans but will let me know when she is free. That indicates that she is not interested in my opinon.
I liked this girl and would like to get to know more about her, but I know there are more single women outside. So just keep moving and being active.
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