How to approach girl who's always with friends

darthjedibinks · 2016-08-29T14:40:21+00:00

When I was around 14 years old, I had to give a speech before a very large audience. It was my first speech and I was really afraid. I literally started sweating, heart beating fast and my legs were shivering with fear.

I was backstage with my father and he saw me going through a panic attack. He put his arms around me and said

"Don't be afraid of the audience. They are all monkeys. Yes. Monkeys. They have no idea what they are doing. So just imagine you are speaking to monkeys. Whatever they do, look as if a monkey is doing it. Now tell me are you afraid of a monkey which has no idea what it is doing?"

Onstage I did the same thing, I imagined them as monkeys and slowly my fear disappeared into oblivion. Not my best speeches but still I did it.

Same way, think all other friends as monkeys and just focus on that one girl. Now you don't care what the other women think as they are all monkeys now and you don't give a damn.

Talk to her. Ask her out. Have fun.

On a side note, do acknowledge the other girls when you leave. Bonus points here.

MindsEvolve · 2016-08-29T10:31:59+00:00

"Hey guys, what's going on? I feel like I haven't partied with you guys yet, what have you all been up to? Okay cool, there's this party going on this weekend. Who's the leader of this group (in a joking fashion), I can text you when it's happening."

Social proof, confidence, and addressing the leader - all in one!

Best of luck,

Evan Magor - Honest Dating Coach - Anyone who wants an awesome dating life can schedule a FREE 30-minute advice session through skype with me here: https://calendly.com/evanmagor/

Title	How to approach girl who's always with friends
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Date	August 29, 2016 7:32 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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