1. I went to a party last night with this girl who likes me and I like her. We were dancing then later, she started to dance with her. I just went out to the deck and get some beer while they danced, then later she said to me if I was jealous because she danced with him. I said "Yes, a bit", which I shouldn't have...showed too much insecurity in me. -What's the best way to let her know I'm not needy and insecure after this incident?

  2. When we got back from the party with a few friends, she was drunk and we were making out, teasing, touching, and in her drunkenness said "she kinda wanted to sleep with me, but might be too early". I said "let's wait till next week when I take you out and are sober ;). Is it bad to turn her down on sex? I didn't want an awkward morning, much rather fuck her when she's sober so it's meaningful.

  3. She always talks of how she doesn't want a boyfriend because of 2 bad past relationships, so she doesn't want a relationship with me too soon (only know her for 2 weeks), but she also says she's attracted to me. Pretty much wants me to wait, while other guys hit on her and stuff. As she puts it, "being a player" and wants me to chase after her while she doesn't want me hitting on other girls because she'll get jealous. I know this is a shit-test, but what is the best way to show I'm not needy, not going to chase after you, and be the one making decisions? -->Should I just say "Sorry, I'm not going to chase after you nor wait for you. You make up your decision if you want to be with me" And I go talk with other girls. (I really like her, so I don't want to flirt with other girls yet and lose her)

I'm in college by the way, so we get to see each other often.