Accidentally sent reaction to girl on messenger, she flaked next day, am I the unluckiest man alive?

quinnmcd · 2020-02-16T21:48:40+00:00

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jelka86 · 2020-02-16T12:31:31+00:00

The heart emoji was probably the cherry on top. She didn't like several things and then that happened. Sometimes i talk to a guy and he's somewhat fun but not 'fun enough'. And i think i want to see him, but it's kind of on the edge, i am not too keen, so when something minor happens it just tips the whole thing to 'nah i'll pass' direction. Sometimes i feel like i over shared. I think it's ok and it's going somewhere (the talking, chatting) but then i realise I'm actually not quite feeling it and i think of excuses to bail. It's just how it is, you can't force it. Someone who's really into you would overlook that minor 'incident'. Someone who's looking for reasons to get out will easily find them.

With a 8/10 face she probably always has a couple guys in her inbox trying the same thing you did. So yeah, ppl can be fun, chatting, flirting can be fun with someone, and not be fun enough to actually go further. So you just don't waste people's time and try to get out in the most non confrontational way.

Title	Accidentally sent reaction to girl on messenger, she flaked next day, am I the unluckiest man alive?
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Date	February 16, 2020 12:08 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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