A little backstory: I’m recently separated, and if I have my kids, I’ll get childcare when I go on a date. I also prefer to not have a woman who I don’t really know over at my house on the first date because of my children. So I’ve fucked 6 women in the last few months, and 5 of those were at her place. Of course it’s not always feasible to go over to a woman’s place for a variety of reasons, so I’m left with a hotel if we’re going to fuck. That said, I’ve noticed plausible deniability is a little more difficult when it comes to hotels. Of course no woman thinks she’s actually going over to your house to meet your dog, see your stamp collection, play video games, or watch a movie, but whatever it takes right? It has been a little trickier for me to invite a woman to a hotel. How should I phrase it? There is a very classy hotel in the area that I lived at when I first separated, so I’ve tried incorporating that (“Come see where I lived”), but it’s still awkward for me to pull off. After a long time being monogamously married, this is new territory for me. Any ideas?