Met an hb9 last September. I caught oneitis, she ghosted me in January. I moved on to pursuing other girls. I have never contacted her since she ghosted me. However, she will contact me about every two months, asking if I am working ( I work at a bar).

First two times she did this I was not working so I didn't respond but texted her the next morning asking if she made it to the bar I work at. She says yes tries to start a conversation but I just let if fade as I am not really interested and I get the feeling she is just using me for attention as she probably thinks its cool that she knows a guy that works at one of the more popular bars in the area.

The third time she texts me I actually am working. She texts back very enthusiastically, but I think nothing of it at this point as I am over this chick (again there is a two month window between every time she text me). She comes to the bar and is all over me. I tell her to come over too my place after my shift, she tells me she has a boyfriend. At this point I am out and think this chick is crazy and really want nothing to do with her. About a week later I run into her at a concert, again she is all over me and whispers to me that her boyfriend isn't there. Again I am over this chick and really don't have time for drama in my life so I blew her off to hangout with my friends that I came to the concert with.

So after the concert I texted her as I thought I might have an opportunity to fuck her behind her boyfriends back since she was giving me a ton of ioi's at the concert. We both go to school in the same city and are from the same hometown. So I texted her and told her to text me when she gets back to our hometown and we can grab a drink together. she said she would (obvoiusly bs I could tell from her response). At this point if she texts me cool if not cool I am really not invested at all. Well two weeks after the concert she text me and guess what she says, "are you working". I tell her no that I am back in our hometown.

This was the last time she texted me, that was two months ago. So I have just been enjoying my summer in my hometown. Honestly I have written this chick off and I am just excited to go back to grad school for one more year and game chicks at the bar I work at.

Well last night I get a call from an unknown number. It is some girl asking me if i am working at the bar seeing If I can get her past the line. I think nothing of it as this actually happens to me a lot. Random girls that I have met at the bar always try to see if I can get them past the line. I had no idea who it was so I politely told her no and explained that I am back in my hometown. I hung up, but curious to see who it was I texted her saying that I got a new phone and lost my contacts (which is true). She texted me back at 3:30 am and replied "seriously" but it was misspelled very badly. I got another text at noon and it was this "girl" telling me that it was her. I tell her cool, that I was trying to figure out who it was but didn't recognize her voice. And get no response.

I know this is along post but honestly this girl is starting to get on my nerves. Even though I never text her or initiate conversation with her she sporadically texts me every two months expecting me to do some favor for her. I just don't get it. I have moved on to gaming other girls. She has or had a boyfriend. Why does she feel the urge to keep contacting me? It feels like she wants me to orbit her and is pissed I wont give in so she just keeps trying every couple a months to get me to latch on. You guys might think I developed oneitis again but I assure you I did not. I learned my lesson the first time she ghosted me. I NEVER contact her, she is the one that keeps contacting me and seems to be using the line "are your working" as plausible deniability.

So what do you guys think? Have any of you run into a situation like this? Any advice, insight, or criticism is appreciated. I don't plan on texting her again and really don't want to hear from her again but based on my past experience I know she is going to text me again. How do I tell her to fuck off? Should I fuck her if the opportunity presents itself again, or should I just leave this one for the dogs?