Hi seddit i read the book and i think most of all the things in the book like needines and talking more clearly, straght, taking care of yourself aproac all that hing from upfront not from the bank and having the balls to say what you mean and so on.. that i think can be solved just by aprocahing women. I mean i think thers to much fuzz about that and this i think that by only aproaching reducing anxety and by that slowly increasing confidence the tonality -clearnes of the voice, accepting yourself and taking care of and dressing better yourself all come in a package becuse you just get more confident . Or am i wrong? what am i missing?