Is it illegal to walk up to a random girl and ask if they wanna fuck?

StayInsane_ · 2018-12-17T07:47:34+00:00

Not illegal, but for sure creepy

XRenaMarieX · 2018-12-17T08:07:54+00:00

Hello, man! (22F) Best advice you can get about ladies is from a lady. Just to start off, it’s totally not illegal to express sexual attraction in anybody. As long as two consenting adults do the dirty, you’re golden. You can even ask upfront if they’re interested in a fling or even a friends with benefits style relationship. It’s not illegal to have sex or talk about sex.

Word of warning, though: use tact. Most women will honestly be creeped out by a random guy approaching them and asking for sex unprompted. And if you continue to make her uncomfortable by trying to coerce her, your approach can be misconstrued as harassment.

I recommend using your internet savvy to start up a profile on an online dating site. Make it clear that your “DTF” and not looking for anything particularly deep. The anonymous nature of these sites is really nice because if you talk to a girl and realize that she’s WAY kinkier than you are, you can just back out. Also, you can get a good feel for how women react to certain comments or come-one.

If that doesn’t float your boat, check out your local nightlife. Bars and clubs are excellent places to pick up cute lady friends. I have a gal-pal in CO who regularly hits up bars for casual sex. ALWAYS ask if a girl is there with somebody or not. If she’s just with other women, you’re probably in the clear. You do NOT want to hit on a taken woman.

Don’t go for drunkards either. That can get you into serious trouble. Talk to her for a bit if she seems receptive and sober. She may offer you a place to sit or start up a conversation by herself. That’s awesome! Compliment her. Girls go out to have a good time and feel gorgeous. Offer to buy her food—not alcohol. If you feel comfortable around her and she’s warmed up to you, broach the idea gently. Ask her if she wants to go somewhere quieter. Ask if she’s ever be interested in meeting up casually. Use inuendo rather than being too upfront, that way it’s a little more playful and a little less serious. Play coy. It’s a cliche because it WORKS. Try a cheesy pun or an intentionally bad pickup line. If you’re funny it’ll put her at ease and make her more comfortable. A high level of comfort can easily lead to a roll between the sheets.

If she seems disinterested, LEAVE. There’s no chance and she’s not into it. Don’t be forceful. Don’t be crass. Just be relaxed and try your luck. And don’t be disappointed if it takes a bit to find a like-minded girl who you’re attracted to. You’ll get there with patience. You’re bound to find a gorgeous girl soon enough!

Title	Is it illegal to walk up to a random girl and ask if they wanna fuck?
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Date	December 17, 2018 7:43 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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