So I have let go three girls I've been dating last month, since one is a LDR (yeah I know, but was forced into it by fam, they paid for the ticket tho), the other was just so into the idea of marriage yet kind of like giving the vibe of a feminazi, and the other one was laid off for being a lame partner.

So earlier this month I went to a speed dating hosted by my friend and met some people there. Got double the numbers I was expecting, since I'm doing rounds and giving off DHV to everyone in the room, and I was shocked that my game was great despite the fact that I'm still new being red pill. Yes, it was a great time that it could be the greatest highlight of my entire year.

Now text game was for logistics, but many of them flaked. Just this one girl who (i nearly forgot every one of them after the party) accepted the date (I just regarded those who flaked and cancelled as dropped dead). So went on the date and we did have a good time, from intro to closing. Ordered some drink and she ordered some food, she shared the food with me though. So I just made some point that we'll be having more time in the future. And we just messaged each other for the week (my text game actually sucks, more likely just for logistics that I text or message). Yet I jokingly clarified that we're getting to know more of each other. And just before we had separated our ways she gives me a peck, I know it means nothing for the most part, but you don't do that to just anyone right?

Last week she went on a trip with her friends to Cambodia, and I just chilled myself out with friends and just having fun. But once she arrived back, I didn't ask her anything about the trip and went straight to ask her out for our second date. She agrees and I'll be picking her up at her house. I already has some idea for a lunch date and all.

So before the question here's a tl;dr: Dropped 3 women I'm dating, got into a speed date, got 8 numbers, successfully dated 1, got really good jive with girl, now onto 2nd date

Now the questions: - I want an LTR, she's giving IOIs, should I be escalating the situation by now? - she's not the same as the girls I've dated so far and been passing all of my own criteria, do you guys give the girl you've dated some kind of shit test of your own? How did you do it (on the onset or while your dating her)?