This started as a more detailed field report, but since it's my first, I'll be more general. I've taken a break from making any real advances in relationships with the opposite gender for a few years now, after a couple of relationships ended heavily. Seddit and some other subreddits have helped me begin to get over some depression and get my life moving a little.
The last couple weeks, I've realized, fuck it, I won't get anywhere if I don't try. This week, I got the numbers of two friends I'm interested in (one of them, I had her number, but lost my phone. She gave me a kiss on the cheek as we parted. I texted her later that night, haven't heard back. Oh well, will see her again Monday. The other is a bartender at a place I've been to after work, regularly for weeks. We were listening to a bad karaoke performance of "Bad Romance", and she thought I was kidding at first. Oops.), and worked up the courage to kiss a third on the cheek as we said goodbye.
Not a juicy FR, I know. More a way for me to keep myself accountable to follow these opportunities, and to say thanks for boosting my confidence.
Any tips on techniques with friends as opposed to strangers?
there doesn't seem to be anything here