Just a couple of months ago we were texting literally all day (she was initiating ALL of the conversations) facetiming every night and everything was going so well. Coronavirus was going on so I considered this okay. She was 10/10 in my books. Cute, nice, smart and everything in between. I thought it was too good to be true. And then we went on two dates and she hits me up with the “I’m not ready for a relationship right now.”

Jesus Christ I don’t know how I fucked this up so badly. Everything I’ve ever wanted handed to me on a silver platter and I might as well have tossed it right there.

It’s sad. I’m 20M and I’ve never had a relationship before. I feel like my life is passing me by and I’m just sitting there taking it like a pussy. The sad truth is that I’ll never get a girl this good again. Sometimes in life you don’t get a second chance.

How do you keep a girl interested in you long term? I feel like I have no problem entertaining her for like a month but after that she gets bored and moves on to her next toy.

Also I can’t seem to establish any chemistry while we’re hanging out in person. Is there any go to tactic I can utilize to make this happen?