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Introduction:
Hey guys, I feel this topic MUST be written about. However, almost no guru has written about this. Just like Max gives you guys vague advice, "Go to the Gym."Instead of giving you the exact training regiment to follow, split training. Other gurus have told you, "Get a bisexual GF" or "Don't get oneities" but no one has sat down and try to analyze, "Why" this is NECESSARY.
I borrow from the Structures of Scientific Revolutions(I've written tons of essays on this book", "Theories based on different paradigms are, Kuhn says, “incommensurable”: they share no common measure." This quote means that we have to completely different societies and therefore, we need to adjust our expectations of women anchored on the REALITIES of the society we live in.
Before we go further, many of you might be wondering, "We'll what if I don't like the society I was born in and I don't want to change my values? The solution is simple: Move! You have free will, you can take a plane ride and never look back. It seems that a lot of guys from the manosphere who came before us were unhappy with the society they had to live in, eventually, this pushed them to move to cultures that aligned better with their values(Poland, Ukraine, Japan or Thailand). In their way, they found the answers they were seeking.
However, this constant negativity from their end has left this community in a state of confusion. Well, what should I do or value if I live in a liberal society? I hope this thread will provide you with the right course of action.
TYPES OF SOCIETY:
Conservative Society
-Monogamy
-Soulmates
-Marriage
Liberal Western Society
-Polygamy
-Fuck buddies
-Open Relationships
Expectations:
The above is the bird's eye's view. But as you see we have two radically different models. Now going back to the questions: What should I do if I live in a liberal society? Let's do a concrete example, say you are a guy called Matt since you were 19 to 28 you only had 4-5 girlfriends at most and you didn't have that many sexual experiences. Meanwhile, you have Cindy who has had at least 100 guys from the age of 18-28. She slept with the sugar daddy who paid her to have sex, with the Club Promoter who got her and her girlfriends the table, the male model on tinder who she messaged to meet up, the actor who was going to get her a job, the Airbnb host who let her and her girlfriends stay at his house in the big city, the photographer who did a photoshoot with her. Now she is ready to settle down and is looking for you to do so. You have a stable job, but lack an accurate assessment of the situation and have no idea how to respond.
You're response:
BluePill
'Girls just want to have fun' you accept her lifestyle. Even though deep inside you might not agree. You feel that this is your chance to have more sex. Your marriage might end in divorce but you take the risk anyway. Ironically, you are soon to be wife does not do any of the things you want her to do since in her mind if she likes someone she won't do threesomes cause that's not "true commitment."
You take the Redpill, MGTOW Pill, Roosh V forums Pill
You become bitter about her lifestyle and how your expectations(Monogamy, Soulmates, Marriage) have been crushed. Your leaders encourage you to do a 'Cold Approach' pick up(which has a low return on investment), you mass approach during the day and night with no strategy whatsoever and most of them turn you down. This leads you to more anger and eventually, you do the right thing for yourself and you move to a conservative or third-world society where your status helps your approach become more effective. Meanwhile, you write articles about the 'degeneration of society' and how the world is coming to an end.
Crimson Pill
'You get to see and experience' the other side. In a society of losers and WINNERS. There have to be successful people, otherwise, no one would live there and most people would riot. I vividly remember when I went to see my first girlfriend she was from North Carolina. Her roommate was in the living room, she was holding my hand leading me to her room. Meanwhile, her roommate was eating Cheetos and playing pes on ps4. He looked at me, shocked. Here was a guy who had befriended her for months, he was extra nice to her and somebody else was doing the banging. I didn't feel bad for him at all since I've learned only to identify with successful people(Be the bull, not the cuck). Once he starts taking action on improving his strategy his life will improve.
But as you guys see the whole experience Cindy lives can be replicated. You can be on the other side, instead of being her sugar daddy you can be her salt daddy, instead of being her promoter you can do faux promoter game. Instead, of being a male model you can optimize your tinder profile with photoshop and follow a simple sequence. Instead of being a 'gutter punk' asking for housing you can be the guy who is offering the housing to her and her girlfriends. Instead of being a photographer you can constantly be throwing photoshoots and using them to get laid. For every negative, there's a positive which you can use to YOUR advantage.
Girlfriends Expectations(In a liberal society)
You need to take full advantage of what your society has given you(Wolf Mindset).If your society has blessed you with girls who want to sleep around then you need to take full advantage of this. At least my requirements are a girl who is bisexual, who will have threesomes with other girls, who won't get jealous if you are with other girls. I already had three girlfriends who were like this, so its not that difficult. We never had a fight over cheating, over what she was doing, over what I was doing..etc. We mostly meet to have sex.
I know many of you are wondering, "Kratz, what about the girls who are jealous, who don't want to do threesomes?" I don't date them, simple as that. Just like when you guys ask me, "What about your roommates, what if they don't want you bringing girls over." And I answer, "I don't have roommates." Or when you guys ask me, "What about your co-workers, won't they want to shame you for having multiple girls?" And I answer, 'I don't have co-workers." What you guys need to see is that is not only about living life in your own terms but about surrounding yourself with people who will follow your terms. If the girls who you surround yourself is hot but she doesn't want threesomes, then cut her off. You need to find a girl who is both hot and willing to do threesomes, be in open relationships.
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