This mainly concerns chatting before a meetup on e.g. tinder. I hate seeming like the desperate one and so I have become super sensitive to situations where girls are not asking questions back or reaching out. I am from Scandinavia where Gender equality is rather solid, but in the game of seduction there is still very much the guy who has to take all initiative. This is fine and I suppose it's quite a natural thing. However, I find that most attractive girls are totally shit at being any sort of interested in me in return. Only 40 year old moms are coming up with returning questions.

It is natural that very attractive people get used to constant attention from others and so they don't need to develop this curiosity for others (this is poorly worded, but you know what I mean).

Where does the line go? As this is a very good sub, I'm sure I have overlooked guides on this topic. Surely it's all about making them curious. I suppose I fail at this and simply resolve to telling them they are too busy and unmatch them.

About making them curious and me seem interesting, I do try to sneak in interesting aspects of myself in the chat.

What are others experiences on this? Do you make yourself particularly interesting in your profile? E.g. "I have lived in 10 countries and I do ballet and bull fighting when Im able". Again, sorry if this is a super basic post. Appreciate your feedback.