So last night I went out with the same horrible wingman as in my last FR. Basically since he is my roommate and was down about this girl messing with him. I tried to explain one-itis to him on the way to the bars but he wanted nothing to do with it and was trying to knock seddit so I told him when we got in he was on his own and needed to talk to atleast 5 girls for the night whether crash and burn or success.
So we get to bar one and get our drinks, walk out to the back patio and I saw this HB9 that I had met once on campus before (only a hey and little small talk) and we locked eyes from a ways away and it seemed like she remembered me. So my roommate has downed his drink and wants to go back for another before the specials are up and could not get him to go without me so I could talk to this chick. He hates the place so we go to bar number two and on the way about 25 min into the night, he already is complaining and wanting to leave. I told him that I had a friend in a sorority bringing single girls for him so we needed to stay. After arguing with him for what seemed ages we choose the bar.
I get in and have instant social proof, there was a big line at the door and I knew the guy working the door (been long time friends) and he says your good lets me through and I say hey and what not. So at the bar I also see a bartender I know and also get served quickly. The place is still pretty dead so I decide to use this time to practice. I start opening sets and bringing my roommate into it and work at pulling the friend away from the target and letting him go for it. I also opened one girl using the "horse girl" but messed it up a bit haha.
Now finally the bar is getting packed and my friend is having problems opening I have him wait in a spot for us and I go to the juke box and put on some unique music we both like. I tell him look for anyone enjoying the music and use it as your opener. He fails to (also while just sitting around he looks pissed) so I leave him and go open up 3 sets using that method.
Now at this point I am beginning to ramble on so Ill get to the real key points. Tonight, I didnt let my AA get the best of me. I saw a girl, and just talked to her asap. Didnt let it get built up in my mind and made a point to talk to everyone, guys, girls, hot or not, to just get myself more comfortable holding conversation and what not. My friend ends up complaining to no end but I tell him Im not leaving and I drove. So long story he ends up leaving and I meet up with another friend. I then had two times with girls that I know where I was able to pull them away mid conversation from guys, one talking to 2 and the other 3. That felt alpha as fawk!
Now I didnt number close or anything tonight, partially because I would fumble late in the conversation, and partially because that just wasnt what I was after tonight. I just wanted to have fun and work on approaching and talking. I definitely feel I got good practice and had lots of fun. Its true that when you are legit having a good time people just want to be around you. Oh and as for the HB9 at the first place. Well she did come into the second bar but it sucked because the place was so packed that everytime I would work my way towards her, her friends would pull her to the other side of the room lol.
TL;DR: Feel I overcame some AA, got lots better at situation opening, and over all was able to really understand inner game and feel confident all night regardless that some sets crashed and burned. It was a fun night!
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